It was interesting to develop a professional relationship with someone from Bulgaria. There were many differences between us; culturally and professionally. I feel that when developing any type of relationship with anyone, there are many consequences. In this case, they were both personal and professional.
Professionally, I feel that my conversations with Emil have opened my eyes to the role that many advocates play in the field of early childhood studies. Emil spends the majority of his time traveling around the world; attending conferences, developing professional ties, resolving challenges within the field, and advocating for children. I have developed a deep respect for the role he plays in this field and envy his mobility. Although, early in our conversations, Emil claimed that he felt there was “no solution” to the issue of Roma children being integrated into Bulgarian schools, he has attended many conferences in order to advocate for them and try to find an answer to the problem. Professionally, my interest in world matters regarding my field has been sparked. I have come to realize the importance of advocacy and my eyes are open to how big my role could be. I don’t have to stand on the sidelines; I can play an intricate role in the solution to our world’s issues in education.
Secondly, my relationship with Emil has also affected the way I view men in the profession of early childhood education. My experiences have included very few men, and the men I do have in my school are in administration and have never taught in a preschool classroom. Emil has worked so hard in his profession and has strived to reach further and touch more lives. My idea of the role of men in my profession was that they did not have to try to obtain any professional development or better themselves because they were given the golden ticket, simply for being a minority in the field. I now see that this is not the case. Also, it is wrong of me to marginalize the men in my field and assume that they choose not to further their professional development, when in all actuality, many men within the field are those making some of the big decisions about it.
Lastly, developing my friendship with Emil has been personally rewarding. It has been wonderful to exchange ideas with someone with a vastly different outlook than my own, that has experiences that are unique from mine. I feel that this should be a practice that all teachers are able to have. I feel as though he has been able to touch my personal life, as well as my professional goals and aspirations. I hope to someday live up to the model that Emil has set for advocacy. I also hope to continue my relationship with him in order to be able to exchange ideas, speak of world issues, and develop a friendship.
In the end, I am left with one goal; I wish to become increasingly connected to the issues surrounding our field on a global level. I have come to realize the importance of advocating for the children in our country and in order to effectively do so I will need to be up to date with the happenings occurring throughout our field all over the world. I want to continue to build relationships with international contacts and acquire knowledge of how all programs our run so that I can advocate for the best possible practices for the children in our country. This has been a rewarding experience for me; I’ve enjoyed getting to know my international contact, as well as learn from all of my colleague’s postings.